Want versus Need

One of many lessons that came to our family from the economic crash of 2008 was being clear about defining “wants” versus “needs”. It can be easy to confuse the two. Defining wants as needs can lead to poor decision making and can circumvent the real goals in our lives.

“I need a new smart phone.” — No. You “want” a new smart phone. Few of us need to upgrade as often as we do. In fact, the brains behind the major telecom companies have figured out a new way to play to our cravings, fed by the advertising and message machines in the marketplace… Don’t want to lock in to a two year contract? Need to update your phone every 12 months? 18 months? Now you can “lease” your phone and pay over time instead of having to buy it outright.

And pretty soon all the “small monthly payments” add up and we find ourselves in a society filled with debt.

In fact, we all have very few “needs” in the material world. Our true “needs” to create fulfilling lives are more often in our relationships. If we control our urges and redefine our needs and wants more truthfully, what opportunities will that create in our lives? More $$ available for creating experiences? More savings? Less debt? Radical.

Want vs Need. What do you think? Where has this been a challenge or an opportunity in your life?

GoTenna : How will you communicate when cellular is out?

Yes, I love technology. This is cool. Using the way radio waves travel to create a personal messaging network to cover up to 50 miles… with no cell towers or wifi(!!!)…

This is not only cool for disaster situations, hiking, skiing, inside large centers where cell service is limited, etc… it can be great if you travel outside the country, want a way to message your family even though you have no service or don’t want to incur per message charges.

A little rabbit trail… How many messages can one send? Our daughter Sarah sent and received more messages than all of us combined when we reviewed our bill several years back. THOUSANDS. It was hard to imagine how one could even send so many messages. So we got her a pair of sweat bands (like the kind athletes wear for the head or wrists) for her thumbs.  :-)

Back to GoTenna… You need one. You might. Except the time when you really need it will be the time when you may not have the opportunity to go out and get it. Just saying. I think this couple ounces added to your case or purse is worth it.

Learn more here. Let me know your thoughts and uses for GoTenna in the comments.


Happy 4th and Happy Canada Day!

We are blessed to be living in a country where you can achieve your dreams. At Lifebook (http://mylifebook.com) we have the privilege and joy of helping people “Discover, Document and Achieve Your Best Life”. This was absolutely the best gift Susan and I have given each other and to our family over the past year and a half.

At a time when we celebrate freedom, I encourage you to use that freedom and love yourself enough to take the time to give yourself a personal gift of love — a gift of time — a gift of defining what you want your best life to be and then committing to go and make it happen!

Celebrate this week — Happy 4th and Happy Canada Day! To your best life!


How Do You Spend Your Time Compared to Others?

Fun interactive online tool to quickly assess how you spend your time versus others in America. How do you fare?



Heaven Is For Real

When the book “Heaven Is For Real” came out a few years ago it became a national best seller. A young child’s encounter with God was relayed in simple beauty. That book is now out (this week) as a movie. I encourage you to see it.

As I think about Good Friday and what God did for us to show us His Love in the sacrifice of His Son, Jesus, I wanted to share an image from the book. This was drawn by an eight year old.

Prince Of Peace

This is indeed a Good Friday. Happy Easter! We remember what God did for us. We celebrate that He Is Risen!

We all need a savior.

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